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Enduring to the End – Without Hurling

Lagoon Amusement Park's Roller CoastersWhen I was young, my family would go to an amusement park in Utah called Lagoon. My favorite ride was the roller coaster, of course. It was (is) an old-school wooden coaster, and to this little boy, it was the most thrilling thing on earth. It was – until we went to Disneyland and I discovered Space Mountain. I have loved roller coasters ever since. Just last year two of my sons and I went to Magic Mountain and rode coasters non-stop – or at least until my boys were begging to take a break.

One complaint I have with roller coasters is that the fastest and craziest coasters always seem so short.  I hate waiting in an endless line, then having the ride over and done in 30 seconds. I like them fast and crazy – and they are never long enough.

Hulk coaster

I have been blessed with an eternal companion (EC) that also loves roller coasters. In fact, all my kids do, too.  The only problem with my EC’s enjoyment of coasters is that she has a little friend she likes to call “motion sickness” that she brings along for the ride,  She is a good trooper, but sometimes her motion sickness kicks in, and her riding day is done.

I don’t have motion sickness, but it seems like it would be miserable. I’ve got to give credit to my EC for taking on some crazy rides even though she knows she might pay for it. I know there have been times where she has been holding onto the bar, with a white-knuckled death grip, fighting off the urge to throw up – simply hoping for the ride to end.

2 ways roller coaster

Such is life: Some look at it as a great adventure that is never long enough, others are just hanging on and wishing it would hurry up and be finished. A lot of us bounce back and forth between the two extremes depending on how the day went.

When we talk about the term “enduring to the end,” it usually conjures up the white-knuckled, trying not to hurl, hurry up and end already idea of finishing up. You rarely hear someone say “I sure enjoy enduring to the end, I love it!”  The very word “endure” implies some heavy baggage, and maybe a little nausea. We endure trials. We endure hardship. We endure pain. “Enduring to the End” can be a very intimidating phrase.

Well, that is one way to look at it…

In recent years, I have seen people incorporate the concept of enduring to the end as the 5th principle and ordinance of the gospel. (Which it is not.) For example:

1) Faith

2) Repentance

3) Baptism by immersion

4) Gift of the Holy Ghost

5) Endure to the end.

Joseph Smith chose to stick with the first four when he wrote what we refer to as the 4th Article of Faith – and I think I now why. (I’ll get there in a minute.)

To those of you paying attention, or keeping score, this is NOT the first time I have written about the first principles and roller coasters – here is a link from earlier in the year where I discuss that: Roller Coasters and the Wasted Atonement pt. 2.

The main point from that post was this:

Those are the first steps, that many of us see as a sort of checklist.

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Here’s the problem: It is not a checklist!  A checklist mentality gives us a sense that it is over and done with. Some think that after checking off these four, the only thing left to do is to “endure to the end.” Not true!

I believe that the first four principles are much more than a checklist. I think they represent a cycle. A cycle that continues until we die – every day, every week of our lives until we are called home. I also believe that “Enduring to the End” refers to our ability to stay in that cycle.

4 principles cycle 1

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So why am I back again talking about roller coasters and first principles? Because I think I underemphasized an important part – the “enduring to the end” part.

I don’t think enduring is considered one of the first principles because it really isn’t a thing on its own. It is not a new principle, it is merely a reminder of the first four. Enduring is merely the spiritual equivalent of the last part of “Wash-Rinse-Repeat.”

Enduring to the end conjures up images of difficulty, burden and weariness, when all it really means is to just keep doing the fist four principles until we are safely dead.

Keep having faith, keep the commandments, and repent when we mess up. Keep being baptized by weekly participation in the sacrament, and keep receiving the Holy Ghost by doing those things.

That’s really all enduring to the end means. Easy-peasy. Maybe a better term than “enduring to the end” would be to “remain faithful” – It doesn’t sound so painful.

Now our life perspective is a completely different issue: Do we see life as a great adventure that is going to be far too short? Or do we see it as something to be tolerated until we can be done with it? Or do we bounce back and forth depending on what obstacles we encounter?

Personally, I am in no hurry for Jesus to come. Yes, I know that the world is a mess. Yes, I know that sometimes I am a mess. Yes, I know that evil is rampant. BUT, there has never been a time on the earth when the Lord has had so many people in his Kingdom, trying to do what is right.

This earth life is where we are tested, and it can be pretty difficult – sometimes it can be brutal beyond description – but it is also the place where we learn, and grow and develop these amazing relationships with each other. It is where we have our families, where we develop our strengths and our intellect. Even with the ups and downs, and occasional bouts of nausea, I’m not in any hurry for it to wrap up anytime soon. I am definitely not going to be hanging on with white knuckles, hoping it is going to end before I can’t hang on any longer. (At least I hope I won’t be.)

I like to think that the longer I have to “endure to the end” just means that I get a longer ride.

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PS: Here is a nice talk about enduring to the end form Stephen Robinson, from the Ensign a few years back: “Enduring to the End.”

 

 

 


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  1. Thanks! I love the “remain faithful” and will use that in my seminary lessons.

  2. Hmmm. My mother has always reminded us of the first time she heard a prophet speak. It was Joseph Fielding Smith, and it was at one of the first regional conferences ever held in England. He started his talk by saying that he would be speaking on the fifth principle of the Gospel : enduring to the end… Still, I totally agree and appreciate your perspective.

  3. Dear MMM: Here is a poem I wrote back in 1996 when asked to speak at the Saturday evening Stake Conference session. I, too, always felt the ‘endure to the end’ was a little negative and heavy sounding, so I wrote this poem to show another way to look at this. I hope you like it:

    Endure vs. Anxiously Engaged

    Endure, endure the prophets say
    Endure, endure all the day
    Working, slaving everyday
    Surely there must be a better way
    When I was young, I held my tongue
    I tried to do as I was told
    Great things will come to those among
    Who endure until they’re old.

    So I tried to listen, to the end ENDURE
    Mostly, I wanted to run for the door,
    Then I heard something that made me pause
    Be anxiously engaged in a good cause.

    Anxiously – I liked the sound of that
    Engaged – Not too bad at all
    Good – of course we know to do that
    And “Cause” – I’ll listen for my call.

    The prophets have surely been inspired
    I’m glad they thought of this angle before I retired
    Endure to the end is how it was
    Now it “Be anxiously engaged in a good cause.”

  4. Thank you for this talk. Helped me to understand more than I thought. I have enjoyed this “Blog” for a bit now and I must say, I list you as one of the best at getting Doctrine, Life lessons etc.. across as those that are ask to speak at General Conference. The way you ad stories or experiences to help with Gospel lessons are about equal to Paul Dunn, a great Story teller and such as you are. I am a native born Californian now living in Utah the last 8 years. I am a Mom or 4 (1 has passed) with 8 Gradkids. I am divorced from a spouse who abused and cheated on our Eternal Family. I am living with my Strong Spirit but a challenged physical body. I will admit,since I live alone now, that when my limitations keep me from getting up for Church, be with others, or even a Church Calling,I wonder why I’m still here “enduring” so thank you for a very goodly aimed “brick-to-the-head” moment. I had been praying for a while to understand and here you are! As they say, Many times,God answers our prayers by sending a friendly mortal for assistance. So,once again, Thank you and I’d say God Bless you,but you know HE does already.

  5. Nice post, I like that analogy…enjoy the ride 🙂 hopefully its extra long…I’m from California and my Grandparents lived three miles from Disneyland and had lifetime passes..when we moved to Utah and went to Lagoon it was so meh. Everyone was so excited and kept telling me about how cool it was and how much fun it was and when I went I was so underwhelmed 🙁 Its all because of Walt Disney, he set the bar high…Lagoon was still fun and its the best there was in Utah but it can’t compete with Disney…thanks for sharing this, have a wonderful day!

  6. I had loved roller coasters all my life until I had to climb out of one once at the newly opened New York New York coaster in Las Vegas. Being new, the ride didn’t have all the bugs worked out and while the car was almost to the top of the highest incline, it suddenly lurched to a stop and stayed that way for what seemed forever, trapping all of us in a very uncomfortable backward leaning chokehold any wrestler would be proud of. We heard a voice come on over the intercom system in the cars (who knew coaster cars had intercoms!) telling us they could not fix the problem and that we would have to exit the cars and walk down to the platform 200 feet below. We did as instructed and held onto the rail with all our might as we inched our way down, step by step to safety below. Now when I teach I have a powerful example of how important “holding onto the iron rod” is! That railing saved our lives that crazy day. Love your posts and insights and I appreciate the efforts you take to share them and build us up with them. God bless you! 🙂

  7. I love my husband. I miss my husband. I look forward to spending eternity with my husband. And I am in no hurry to rejoin my husband. I want to stay here until there’s no more I can do for King and kingdom in this mortal body. Getting older is a whole new adventure. I’m not done yet!

  8. I love this life. I’m with you – there are a lot of trials and sometimes the white knuckle is the only way we can endure and hold on but when we do, it gets better, again. I am not in any hurry to exit here either. President Hinckley also said that “life is meant to be enjoyed, not just endured”. All a matter of perspective I guess. I’m in it for the long haul. Thanks!

  9. “..until we are safely dead.” I like that. I am going to hang on tightly, with white knuckles until then. Not because I am anxious to finish the ride but because I don’t want something to pull me away from it.

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